Because parenting behaviors co-occur with children's developing personalities,
many parents assume that their behaviors actually shape their children's personalities.
The evidence from developmental research overwhelmingly shows that they don't.
In fact, the causality is often reversed, as temperamentally-easy children enable their
parents to feel competent. Good children often create good parents.
* 本來是在找 "What doesn't kill you make you stronger" 相關的資料, 結果讀到上面這段很有意思的內容, 我把它稍做翻譯. 看看朋友們有些什麼看法.
原文出於:
What Doesn't Kill You Makes You Weaker
A history of hardship is not a life asset
Published on August 21, 2010 by Noam Shpancer, Ph.D. in Insight Therapy
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/insight-therapy/201008/what-doesnt-kill-you-makes-you-weaker